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Every child undergoes a period when he is becoming less patient and is somehow frustrated at how limited his abilities can be. This disappointment and struggle to grasp greater control of things is often vented through an activity referred to as temper tantrums.

Experts claim that temper tantrums generally manifest in children aged one to three years. Temper tantrums can be a nightmare for parents who grow impatient with their child’s behavior.

Temper tantrums are manifested through crying, screaming, and breath holding, hitting and kicking. The loud screams and cries usually annoy people. The parents almost always want to disappear when their child is throwing tantrums. Alas, they can never do that.

Psychologists remind parents that temper tantrums are a normal part of the child’s maturation process. Some children are more prone to developing the habit of throwing temper tantrums and some tend to cease the habit.

Another setback to this behavioral problem in children is that you will never know when a child will suddenly burst out, and you can never tell where. You might have seen children throwing tantrums at places like the movie house, the grocery, and church or even at the bank.

That is why it is imperative that parents know the basics of handling temper tantrums in their children. First-time parents especially should be educated about the subject. All parents, even those who already have children, can also use a refresher.

Moreover, experts warn that not all parents are dealing with the temper tantrums appropriately. While others may be satisfied with their small strategies to pacify their children, it is not assured that those schemes are healthy.

Dealing with a child who is throwing temper tantrums:

There are many simple means on how parents can deal with their children amid a temper tantrum episode. Take note of the following simple guidelines.

Be sure to be firm and in control. Moreover, do not throw tantrums yourself. Spanking and yelling at the child during such episodes is not helpful. Doing this only triggers the child to cry and scream louder.

If it is clearly indicated that the child is having tantrums just to get something, remember not to give in to the child’s demands. Children may be small and younger, but do not underestimate them. If you pamper them just to keep them quiet, you may develop an impression that he should just throw tantrums whenever he wants something or whenever he wants a person to do something for him.

When the child throws tantrums at home, just put him in a room or his crib, where he can scream, kick and cry as freely as he chooses. Call this “time out” for the child. Let him ventilate his frustration. Within a few minutes, he will tire and realize that there is no point continuing the activity. It may be difficult hearing the child do so, but endure it. You will be doing yourself and the child a favor.

If you cannot leave your child alone while he is having an episode, just sit away from him. Do not lift a finger or try to pacify him, let him do it voluntarily. Avoid developing eye contact with the child during the tantrum episode.

If you happen to be in a public place when the tantrum occurs, take the child to the car. Put on his seatbelt and let him vent his frustration inside. You may opt to remain inside or step out of the car during the duration of the episode, but never leave the child completely unattended.

If, unfortunately, you are in a long line in a grocery, let the child have his moment. Still, do not try to pacify him. He may be smart enough to capitalize on the fact that there are other people around just to get what he wants. Ignore the nasty comments and the glares of all other people in the line. It is funny how the line will move quickly when there’s a child throwing tantrums. Of course, the cashier will aim to move faster just to get rid of the child. That way, you are doing everyone a good and practical favor.

Talk to your child after the temper tantrum episode. Emphasize that what he did was inappropriate. Toddlers also understand what his parents tell him, so talk to him also as gently and as patiently as possible. Teach the child the habit of just saying, “I’m angry!” whenever he feels frustrated and disappointment.

Seeking experts’ help:

Of course, there are situations when the parent should seek professional help, such as when the parent still feels his measures are inappropriate or when the parent becomes uncomfortable with the recommended responses to the episode.

Professional help should also be sought if the child starts hurting himself amid tantrums, or if he learns to be destructive and throws objects.

Sometimes, tantrums can also be mistaken for regular crying sessions, when the child could not express unbearable pain or discomfort. He may be feeling ill, so check the body temperature for any indication.

Tantrums are a natural part of the differentiation process. The best way parents can deal with the situation is to be calm and in control. Remember, you are the parent. Keep this in mind next time your child throws a temper tantrum.

Dori Thompson shares her experience through several health-related sites including Health Corral (http://www.healthcorral.com/), a terrific resource site for alternative and complementary medicine, and Community Food (http://www.communityfood.com/), a site about wholesome food and nutrition.

Have you ever bought your toddler an expensive new toy, only to discover that he spends more time playing with the box it came in?

Toddlers have an amazing ability to sink into the simple things of life and create worlds from their own imagination. At this magical age, virtually everything is brand new, and we can relax and know that our interaction with our young children, especially through simple, repetitive activities, is enhancing their development and love of learning. The key is to keep it simple and spend lots of time allowing them to explore at their own pace.

Here are some simple and inexpensive activities you can enjoy with your toddler:

Outdoor Activities for Toddlers

Toddlers love to be outside. Often, toddlers will want (and need) time to play freely, but here are some ideas for those times when your toddler wants to engage in play with you:

Blow bubbles. Toddlers love to chase and blow bubbles. They watch in awe as nothing at all turns into something and is then carried away by the breeze. Spillproof containers are perfect for toddlers, especially when they are off chasing their bubble creations. Toddlers love it when you blow bubbles, too. Try counting the bubbles or challenging your child to see how many she can catch.

Watch the clouds. Lie on your backs together and find shapes in the clouds.

Draw with sidewalk chalk. These thick chunks of chalk are perfect for little hands, and they are well suited to the fine motor skills of a toddler, too. Allow your child to create designs of his own creation. Or write his name in block letters and invite him to color them in. You can also draw a wiggly line down the sidewalk for your toddler to walk along. Or make up a story as you walk along the sidewalk about a child who is out for an adventure in the world, and illustrate different parts of your story as you go.

Take a walk in the wide, wide world. A simple walk in the neighborhood will give your toddler an opportunity to become familiar with the world outside her home. As she follows the same route over and over, she will begin to form a concept of her neighborhood. In time, this will bring her comfort that comes from knowing she is “almost home.”

Toddlers also love to walk in the woods. All that nature has to offer, such as rocks, sticks, and leaves, are marvelous entities to be held and explored. If you take the time to allow a toddler to explore the woods, you are in for a treat yourself (as well as a lesson in patience.) A toddler can watch a simple stream for what can seem like hours. While you walk, put a piece of transparent tape, sticky side out, loosely on your her wrist. When she finds small items to document her journey, whether its flecks of mica, pretty leaves, or dried pine needles, she can press them on her Nature Bracelet. When she returns home, seal the goodies by placing another piece of tape on top.

Think like a kid. As you enjoy time with your toddler, try to imagine what things look like from his point of view. Toddlers take delight in the simplest things, especially if you do them again and again. For example, kids love to simply count their footsteps up to five or ten, and then start again. They love to say hello to the same dog (or the rosebush or the big rock or the open meadow) that you pass on each walk. They love to try to hop over cracks in the sidewalk. What did you love to do as a young child? If you can not remember, ask your parents or other adults who spent time with you, and make a point to weave those simple activities into life with your own toddler.

Indoor Activities for Toddlers

Read. Reading opens the imagination of a toddler and fosters a love for books, which can propel him to success far into his school years. Read to your toddler whenever you get the chance. Take weekly trips to the library to pick out new books and audiobooks to enjoy. Introduce your child to the books you remember from your own early childhood. And make sure your child sees you enjoying a good book now and then, too.

Sing. Anytime a toddler can sing, concepts are likely to stick. Sing simple songs such as the alphabet song, or silly songs you make up about the life you live. Kids love having their own special songs, too. See if you can make up a song to the tune of Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star, which features his name and some of the things you love most about him.

Car Games and Activities for Toddlers

Magnetic Trays. You can use an old metal tray or purchase a ready made magnetic tray at the toy store. With these trays, toddlers can play with alphabet and number magnets, as well as paper magnetic dolls. Another great way to use a magnetic tray is to print off pictures of family members and adhere them to magnets.

Travel Songs. Singing songs in the car is another great activity that passes the time. Again, repetition is the key. Sing the same song each time you and your toddler start off on a trip to the store, for example.

Story Starters. Start a story, and then ask your toddler or preschooler to fill in the blanks here and there. For example, you might start with, “Once upon a time there was a dog named: ____” (Ask the child for the name of the dog.). And the dog went to the ____.” This is great when you have a mix of ages, too. The older children can create a very silly tale, and your child can make it even sillier when it is his turn.

Do not be afraid to do the same thing twice. The key to educational games at this age is in repetition. Young brains develop connections by doing, seeing, and hearing something over and over again. That is why children want to watch the same video, listen to the same song in the car, and go through the same bedtime routine each night.

As parents, we sometimes worry about whether our toddlers are getting enough attention, stimulation, and entertainment. Often, the games toddlers truly love are the most simple and the least expensive, especially when taken at their natural pace and shared with someone they love.

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Strollers have developed quite a bit in the past few years. In the past, if you were looking for a stroller you would have to choose between two main models: an oversized pram, (a large black stroller where the baby lies down), or a small, precarious stroller that your child would sit in, but would fly around the sidewalk and break easily.

Today, parents are lucky to have a wide variety of well made strollers at their disposal. And this is a good thing too, because a good stroller is a parent’s connection with the rest of the world. Parents rely on strollers to transport their growing family outside of the house.

Indeed, some parents even find that there are times when the only possible way they can get their child to sleep is with a walk in the stroller. No matter whether you are using your stroller for work or pleasure, it is clear that strollers (or pushchairs, as they are known in Britain), are a mainstay in modern living, an essential tool for the busy parent on the go and the relaxed parent out for a stroll.

What is the best stroller for my needs?

Your stroller is going to be one of the most important and frequently used baby accessories you own. For this reason, it is essential that you find the perfect stroller for your newborn.

What is perfect for you, however, depends on what you plan to do with your stroller. Strollers come in a variety of configurations to meet the variety of needs and situations parents face in modern society.

If space it not a concern, either in your house or in your car or mini-van, you should be happy with a standard or full-size stroller. The standard stroller will give you and your child a high level of comfort, and be easy to use.

However, if space is at a premium, or you are primarily going to use your stroller while you are out shopping, or want a stroller you can take on trips and that can be brought out quickly, you should consider purchasing a compact stroller.

These lightweight strollers are small and fold away quickly and easily. The main drawback to getting a compact stroller is that they will not be as strong as standard strollers. Also, because they are lighter and more flimsy, they will be harder to push.

As a compromise, consider getting a standard stroller and keeping a compact stroller in the car for when you have to run out with your baby for groceries.

Those parents who plan on going for jogs with their baby, or for long walks in the forest, you should definitely consider buying a jogger, also known as a jogging stroller.

These strollers have exploded onto the scene in the last few years. One of the main benefits of a jogging stroller is that it has large air-filled tires, which will give you a smooth ride over bumpy surfaces. The handlebars are also specially designed to allow you to hold on as you jog behind the stroller. Your baby may not be getting any exercise while you run, but he or she will sure enjoy the ride!

Be sure to take the time to make sure you have the best possible stroller for your child and your lifestyle; after all, you will be spending a lot of your time over the next few years behind the handle bars.

Steve Dolan has had to select several strollers over the past few years. Learn all about baby strollers at http://www.beststrollersonline.com Need a baby gift? See our sister site http://www.mybabygiftweb.com

It is very exciting to watch your baby grow and learn as he passes through all the baby development stages of his second year. During this time your baby will start to lose his baby chubbiness as he grows longer, leaner and more muscular. By the time he reaches his second birthday he will be roughly half his future adult height.

Baby development stages: 13 to 15 months
By this age your baby will be able to pick things up between his finger and thumb and will be able to grasp two small objects in one hand. He will be able to clap hands and be able to place one building block on top of another. He will also enjoy trying to feed himself with a spoon and given a crayon, try to make marks with it on paper (or the wall so watch out!). He will be able to get into a standing position, with support and should be able to take a few steps as he toddles between supports, although walking can actually occur anytime between about 9 and 15 months (I have heard of a baby walking at 6 months but this is extremely unusual). He may also have great fun taking off his shoes and socks.

Baby development stages: 15 to 18 months
During this time your baby will be able to get into a standing position on his own and will be able to be able to walk without trying to reach a support with his elbows held high. He might enjoy climbing and should be able to negotiate stairs if you teach him how to crawl down backwards.

Baby development stages: 18 to 20 months
At 18 to 20 months your baby will be walking quite steadily and his arms will have dropped down. He will start trying to walk sideways or backwards and may try to run and also walk up the stairs. He will be able to feed himself quite well now with a spoon and will be able to build towers of four or five blocks. He will like looking at books and be able to turn the pages himself.

Baby development stages: 18 to 20 months
At this age your baby will be able to reach down and pick something up off the floor without losing his balance. His grip will be quite strong now and will be able to turn door knobs and twist off loose lids. He should also be able to kick a ball and if he’s running he should be able to suddenly veer off in a different direction or stop suddenly without falling over.

Your baby will be ‘into’ everything in his second year so you must be aware of safety in the home and take any necessary precautions. However it a great time in terms of the various baby development stages he will pass through so enjoy it.

Lisa Davies is a writer and mother of two.
Learn more about babies and toddlers at http://www.babies2toddlers.com

We take pride in saying that this article on child creativity development and education is like a jewel of our articles. This article has been accepted by many parents as a most informative article on child creativity.

Here are five play time activities you can use to help your children develop their creative faculties and other senses faster. Many other techniques exist, but the following have been found to be the most effective in several studies. Enjoy!

1. Please Help Me Pack

What are the main benefits for the child

- exercise communication skills

- enrich vocabulary

- practice reaching, thereby strengthening arm muscles

What you need

- a shopping basket or plastic bag

What to do

- This is a fun way to putting away all your children’s toys after playing. Start putting toys and other objects in the bag while announcing
“It is time to pack away all your toys.”

- Then encourage your child to join in and help too.

- While filling up your own bag, name and identify each object that you pick up.

Try this activity when putting items into a laundry basket, or fixing up their toy storage.

2. Dump and Haul

The child begins using pre-verbal gestures to communicate starting ages 10 to 13 months, associates words with objects, enjoys waving goodbye and speaks his first recognizable word. At this stage, they initiate familiar routines and games with parents and adults.

What you will need

- a big pail or basket

- toys that fit into the pail or basket

- 4 feet of cord

What to do

- Tie a piece of cord through the pail handle. Let the child dump small toys into the pail. Then drag the pail across the room as the child holds the cord.

- The child can dump everything into another pail or on the floor again.

- Dump and haul, then dump and haul again.

3. Paper Cup Thrower

Your child is like a little Einstein, trying to discover and explore everything about the world as he can every minute. A child learns to solve problems through trial and error and tries to figure out the cause-and-effect relationships of every object he holds and the actions that are being done.

What are the benefits for the child?

- introduce a cognitive activity that allows the child to explore shapes and spaces

- continue developing cause-and-effect links

What you need

For toddlers, better education is achieved through playing constantly. Children respond well to visual stimuli and have been found to learn quicker and more if information is incoporated into their playtime activities. Children’s creative and development traits are best addressed through the world of play, since they are not yet equipped with enough speech and visual faculties to effectively communicate their feelings and thoughts with adults.

- 10 pieces of paper cups or plastic cups

What to do

- Things fit together! What’s more, the objects look different when they are put together! These are some of the many “great” discoveries of your active child. Let your toddler play with the cups, seeing how they are put together and apart, and then come back together again.

4. Dramatic Play

At age 24 to 35 months, the toddler is able to concentrate on his or her self-selected activities for la onger time. Pretend-play with parents, siblings, and other kids becomes the highlight of his day as he muses on other people’s facial expressions, actions, and gestures, then attempts to copy them.

Pretend-play is very important in the early years. It is also among the big favourites in a child’s play choices. The first interest in pretend play begins as a 10 month old picks up a rattle, places it near his ear, and starts babbling words like an adult would with a cellular phone.

Dramatic play is just one activity that strengthens holistic development. It touches these aspects in a child’s growing years - emotional: playing out scenes with emotional weight, cognitive: learning to use symbols through toys, social: interacting with others children, creating friendships, bonding with family, language: talking to each other, thinking of plans, brand new words, expressions, and physical: using gestures, facial expression, and playing “dress up”.

Since children still lack the capacity to communicate effectively, play is often their way of education. Thus, as parents, we must allocate sufficient time for play, in order for our children to develop creative faculties in the early stges of their life. Since children are not yet equipped with enough speech and visual faculties to communicate heir thoughts and feelings effectively with adults, their development and creative traits are best addressed through the world of play. Children respond well to visual stimuli and have been found to learn a lot better and more if information is added into playtime activities. For toddlers, better education is achieved through constant play time.

Andrew P. Chin is a recognized authority on the subject of Creativity. His web site http://www.SelfImprovementsGuide.com provides a wealth of information on everything about Creativity.

Having to take care of a newborn baby can seem like a daunting task in the beginning,. You’ll probably have lots of concerns, which is totally normal, but don’t be afraid to ask questions even if you think they are silly ones.

One of the things you will probably notice about your newborn is that his proportions don’t seem quite right. His head will seem large in comparison to the rest of his body while his abdomen will seem very rounded - this is due to muscle weakness. His arms and legs on the other hand may appear to be very skinny.

Head
A newborn baby’s head is roughly one quarter of his entire length. An adults head is about one eighth of his length so it therefore not surprising that newborn babies seem to have large heads - they do. The head will probably not be perfectly round either. This is due to the fact that the bones in the head have to move over each other during the birth process to allow the head to fit down the birth canal. But don’t worry as this will not affect his brain and the shape of the head will soon go back to normal.

Skin
Some babies have a white greasy substance which can cover some or all of their heads and bodies when they are born. This is called vernix. Sometimes the hospital staff remove this straight away but other times it is left to absorb into the skin naturally over a couple of days.

Dry and peeling skin is also common in newborns but this soon goes away. Another thing you may notice are tiny white spots on the face. These are called milia and result from blocked sweat glands. Don’t try and squeeze these as, again, they will soon clear up.

Birthmarks
Sometimes a baby has small red marks on the skin. These are most likely to be seen on the forehead or back of the neck. They are due to enlarged blood vessels near the skin’s surface and are nothing to worry about. They usually disappear sometime between six and eighteen months.

Jaundice
It is not unusual for a baby to become jaundiced in the first few days after birth. When a baby is born he has a high level of primitive red cells and when these get broken down one of the components, a yellow pigment called bilirubin, increases in the blood. This causes a yellow discoloration to the skin and whites of the eyes but in most cases it disappears in the first week or so. Occasionally a baby may need special light treatment to bring the bilirubin levels down but this is not normally a cause for concern.

Eyes
Babies sometimes look as if they have swollen eyes. This occurs because of the pressure applied during birth but the puffiness will subside after a few days. Another interesting thing about babies is that they are unable to actually shed tears until they are about four or five months old. Surprising really given the amount of time they can spend crying!

Lisa Davies is a writer and mother of two.
To find out more about newborn baby care visit our website at http://www.babies2toddlers.com

Most toddlers go nuts over plush toys. When my brother was three, he went everywhere with what looked to me like an over-weight cat a missing eye. It went with him to the backyard; it was with him watching his favorite shows on TV; it accompanied us for meals at the dining table; and finally cuddled up with his toddler owner to sleep. I think it was my brother’s security blanket — a friend for all seasons. So when I had to pick up a gift for my best friend’s two year old daughter’s second birthday, it was a no-brainer. I would get her a plush toy!

However, now comes the tough part. How do you go about getting that perfect plush toy for a kid that has just barely developed taste buds, let alone preferences? Well, I suppose, this is where the cuteness factor comes in. Pick a toy that makes you go “Oh! How adorable!” But bear in mind factors such as: Is the child afraid of dogs? Would she want to hug a rabbit with a hard plastic guitar?

If you ask me, it is best to get a plush toy that looks and feels simple. If you are buying a plush toy for a toddler, rest assured that he or she will be extremely happy with a traditional teddy bear or an elephant that is as soft as one can get. The softer the toy, the more likely will the toddler be to shower it with loads of love and affection.

Of course, you must look out for a plush toy of good quality. This would include comparing the material of different plush toys, assessing the quality of the stitching, and making sure that the eyes, nose and other parts of the toy are not loose. Toddlers are especially prone to swallowing anything they see. You would not want to gift a choking hazard would you?

Even after having gone through this process of finding the best plush toys, there is no guarantee that the plush toy that you are gifting will be a big hit with the toddler. As it is, giving gifts is a difficult art to master. The difficulty level gets multiplied several times over when the receiver of the gift is two or three years old. But take comfort in the thought that even if you did not gift the kid a toy that he would take everywhere, at least you have finally experienced the complicated process of getting a gift for a toddler.

Ajeet Khurana is a web enthusiast and an author. He recommends Plush Toys at http://www.plush-toys.com, Snow boarding at http://www.boardthesnow.com and Sports Coaching at http://www.sportycoach.com